7 Year Anniversary Of The Loss Of Our Son Billy

June 17, 2011

      June 26 2011 will make 7 years since the loss of our son Billy, who crossed over to heaven after an accident while riding ATV at night. I just wanted to leave a short message for anyone else who has suffered a loss and wonders what it’s like 7 years after a loss. I can only speak for myself of what I felt then and feel 7 years later.

    To get a better feel of what I felt in the beginning we have a website www.oursonbilly.com which everyone can visit and read our story. What I can tell you that it was the most heartbreaking, mind numbing, life draining, you could say a living hell that any parent could ever experience.   Going through grief is different for everyone, we have received many emails from all over and they have shared their experience with us and most are pretty much the same, a few have dealt with their grief in a different way, which is what I have mentioned earlier, is that people grieve in their own way and length of time.

    For me things began to change when my wife mentioned an idea from a friend of hers, who had also suffered the loss of a child, which was to visit a spirit medium, which we did.  Visiting a medium named Vicki Monroe help make a difference in moving forward with my life and hearing from our son Billy ( through ) Vicki Monroe, is that our loved ones want us to start moving forward as soon as possible, living our lives to the fullest.  It’s ok to grieve, but there comes a time ( it’s different for everyone ) that we must start living our lives again, that’s what our loved ones want us to do.  because when it’s our time to cross over to heaven, we will be together again.

    After our meeting with Vicki Monroe, I would say about 2 to 3 months later, I learned that one of the ways that our loved ones can and do connect with us are through photographs.  I started to take pictures at random outside and inside of our home to see if we could receive any signs from our son Billy in that way. We were able to and continue to receive many signs from our son Billy that he is still with us, but in his true form ( spirit ). Our favorite sign from Billy are the heart-shaped images of the moon and lights of which we have 100’s of them. You can visit our website www.oursonbilly.com  and view a few pages of the type of signs that we continue to receive to this day.

    As the years have passed by life does get better, one day at a time,  things do start to get back into a ( normal as it can be ) life.  We never forget what it was like losing a child and we talk about Billy from time to time, of course I work with Billy’s website, book, articles take photographs and answer emails from people from all over.  We enjoy life, we are very happy, do the best we can and try to help others. For anyone who has suffered the loss of a loved one, I can tell you from my experience  and with the many emails that we have received from others that life will get better for you. It may not seem like it right now, but in time it will, one day at a time and that is what our loved ones in heaven want, they want us to be happy, enjoy life to the fullest.  We have on this blog other articles about getting help which you can read and if you like,  you can send me an email info@oursonbilly.com and I’ll do the best that I can to answer your questions.

    Remember, our loved ones who have crossed over want with all their heart for us to start living our lives again, be happy,  to move forward, we have to do our part and our loved ones in heaven can also help us along our life journey, but we have to want to start living again.

Love is everything and nothing matters.

Guy

www.oursonbilly.com

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