From Our Loved Ones In Heaven-We Are Still With You

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Finding Comfort in The Earl Stages of Grieving.

I have received email and questions from people who have just dealt with a loss and from people who have a family member or friend who has just suffered the loss of a loved one. They have asked me what brought me some comfort in the early stage of my grieving after the loss of our son Billy. I will share 4 of them with you and of course this can be different for everyone, there is no wrong or right way, it’s your way and that’s what really matters.
1. Having someone close by brought me comfort, they did not have to say anything or do anything at all, just knowing there was someone close by helped me deal with my loss. If I wanted to talk with them and they wanted to say something great, sometimes I didn’t want anyone to talk to me, I just wanted to be left alone, but have them close by, could have been to watch tv( or should I say stare at it )because my mind was in another world, go for a walk, just sit and sometimes talk. Just having someone close by was one of my comfort’s. If your someone who has a family member or friend who has dealt with a loss and you’re not sure what to do…….just be there, just hang out with them.

2. Visiting our son Billy’s memorial, brought me some comfort. We had for 8 months a roadside memorial that I visited every single day. We planted flowers and a plaque which my parents bought us. Going to the place of the accident gave me a place to visit, think and helped bring some comfort to me. Some people may think that I was crazy for doing that, but I didn’t care what anyone was thinking. Billy was my son and I was going to grieve that way I could and which brought me some comfort and peace. There is no wrong or right way to grieve, it’s your way.

3. My family and friends, I am very blessed to have a great family and friends to help bring me some comfort during my grieving. For their part just being close by and sometimes talking helped my a difference and was very comforting for me.

4. This one was 8 months after the loss of our son Billy and which really helped bring some comfort and peace of mind and that was having a reading with a medium, in our case with Vicki Monroe. Our reading with Vicki help take a load off my shoulders, knowing that our son Billy was ok and that Billy can still connect with us from heaven, it was an awesome experience and brought me great comfort knowing that our son Billy is still so very close by, all be it in spirit form.

I do have other way that brought me comfort, but these are the ones that I wanted to share with you.

Feel free to comment on what helped bring you some comfort during your early stages of grieving.

www.oursonbilly.com  while on our website feel free to visit or join our group page on facebook – Signs from our loved ones

A place to share about our loss of a loved one and the countless sign’s that they can and do send us.

Facebook group Signs From Our Loved ones

 

Here is our link to our facebook group, Signs From Our Loved ones.    Our group is for anyone who as dealt with the loss of a loved one which is just about everyone and would like to share their story, comment’s, experience’s and the different type’s of signs that our loved ones can and do send us.   Or just read what others have to say.   Your welcome to join our group and take things at your own pace, tell your story, comment on one of many post, post a photo of your own or just read a post which may be of help to you.

Have a great day

LOVE IS EVERYTHING NOTHING ELSE MATTERS

Guy

www.oursonbilly.com

Heart – Shaped Lights

I would like to share this heart – shaped image of lights which I took yesterday June 22, 2011. A couple of days ago I installed some inexpensive christmas tree lights onto our garage and onto one of our trees.  I went outside to take a few photographs last night and this is one of three heart – shaped images which we continue to received from our son Billy in heaven. You can zoom onto the photograph for better viewing. You’ll may also notice many orbs around the heart-shaped lights.

Love is everything nothing else matters

Have a great day

Guy

www.oursonbilly.com

7 Year Anniversary Of The Loss Of Our Son Billy

      June 26 2011 will make 7 years since the loss of our son Billy, who crossed over to heaven after an accident while riding ATV at night. I just wanted to leave a short message for anyone else who has suffered a loss and wonders what it’s like 7 years after a loss. I can only speak for myself of what I felt then and feel 7 years later.

    To get a better feel of what I felt in the beginning we have a website www.oursonbilly.com which everyone can visit and read our story. What I can tell you that it was the most heartbreaking, mind numbing, life draining, you could say a living hell that any parent could ever experience.   Going through grief is different for everyone, we have received many emails from all over and they have shared their experience with us and most are pretty much the same, a few have dealt with their grief in a different way, which is what I have mentioned earlier, is that people grieve in their own way and length of time.

    For me things began to change when my wife mentioned an idea from a friend of hers, who had also suffered the loss of a child, which was to visit a spirit medium, which we did.  Visiting a medium named Vicki Monroe help make a difference in moving forward with my life and hearing from our son Billy ( through ) Vicki Monroe, is that our loved ones want us to start moving forward as soon as possible, living our lives to the fullest.  It’s ok to grieve, but there comes a time ( it’s different for everyone ) that we must start living our lives again, that’s what our loved ones want us to do.  because when it’s our time to cross over to heaven, we will be together again.

    After our meeting with Vicki Monroe, I would say about 2 to 3 months later, I learned that one of the ways that our loved ones can and do connect with us are through photographs.  I started to take pictures at random outside and inside of our home to see if we could receive any signs from our son Billy in that way. We were able to and continue to receive many signs from our son Billy that he is still with us, but in his true form ( spirit ). Our favorite sign from Billy are the heart-shaped images of the moon and lights of which we have 100’s of them. You can visit our website www.oursonbilly.com  and view a few pages of the type of signs that we continue to receive to this day.

    As the years have passed by life does get better, one day at a time,  things do start to get back into a ( normal as it can be ) life.  We never forget what it was like losing a child and we talk about Billy from time to time, of course I work with Billy’s website, book, articles take photographs and answer emails from people from all over.  We enjoy life, we are very happy, do the best we can and try to help others. For anyone who has suffered the loss of a loved one, I can tell you from my experience  and with the many emails that we have received from others that life will get better for you. It may not seem like it right now, but in time it will, one day at a time and that is what our loved ones in heaven want, they want us to be happy, enjoy life to the fullest.  We have on this blog other articles about getting help which you can read and if you like,  you can send me an email info@oursonbilly.com and I’ll do the best that I can to answer your questions.

    Remember, our loved ones who have crossed over want with all their heart for us to start living our lives again, be happy,  to move forward, we have to do our part and our loved ones in heaven can also help us along our life journey, but we have to want to start living again.

Love is everything and nothing matters.

Guy

www.oursonbilly.com

My New Years Resolution – Love

    My New Years resolution is to hopefully, share with everyone on earth our true purpose here on earth, why we are here.  Anyone who has read my blog or visited our website www.oursonbilly.com will have an idea of what I am about to write about.

    Since the loss of our son Billy in 2004, one of my goals has been to try to connect with our son Billy in heaven, which we have been able to accomplish in different ways. Here are to name a few ways that we have been able to connect with Billy, spirit medium, dreams, blinking lights, Billy playing around with our computer, messages from Billy and the most common way that we have been able to connect with Billy are through our spirit photographs that we have and continue to take. Here are a few, spirit orbs, spirit essence, streaking lights and our favorite the heart-shaped images  of the moon, street lights, christmas tree lights.

    Which brings me back to the true purpose of why we are here?  Billy has helped me with this message of why we are here, through the heart- shaped images in our spirit photographs, – LOVE – love is the reason why we are here – meaning – How we treat one another and that is how we grow spiritually.

    That is our purpose here on earth. LOVE – How we treat one another, no matter what religion or no religious beliefs at all, no matter what the color of your skin is, or if your rich or poor, famous or just your average Joe, male or female, young or old, it doesn’t matter what you do for work, or what country that you are from, or anything else that you can add to this list, it just doesn’t matter, because LOVE is everything and nothing else matters.

    It is all about how we treat every single person in our lives and every single person that we come across and every person that we talk about in our lifetime; it doesn’t matter if you have known this person for a lifetime or for a very brief moment, or never knew the person that you came across.  Everything that we are here to do revolves around how we treat every single person that we come across in our lifetime, and how we treat that person can make a difference in their life and they in turn can make a difference in someone else’s life and so on.

   One person at a time, that’s where it begins.   After all, WE are all part of one family – LOVE IS EVERYTHING AND NOTHING ELSE MATTERS.

Happy New Year

Guy

A sample of my recent spirit photographs

I would like to share a sample of the type of spirit photographs that we have been able to collect for the past 30 days, along with a photograph that was sent to us from France which is really cool. I want to share the type of signs through photographs that our loved ones, spirit guides and angelic being can and do give us.  

There are many different kinds of signs that our loved ones, spirit guides and angelic being can and do give us, for me many of them are through photographs. We have a large collection of about 40,000 photographs that we have taken over the past 5 plus years since our son Billy crossed over to heaven.  You may also like to read some of  my past blog’s and learn about other types of signs that our loved ones can and do give us which I have written about from others who have done a great job in collecting stories from many others who have receive signs from their loved ones.

Okay, back to the types of spirit  photographs that I have taken over the past 30 days. Spirit photos come in many different images and here are a few of them.

This first photograph was taken indoors in our family room October 6 2010. Notice the spirit energy using the light from our TV.  Yes I was watching Star Trek Voyager, I like the show….LOL.

Spirit light

 

This second photograph was also taken on October 6 2010, this time outside of our home’s back yard. This photograph is filled with spirit energy, beginning with the large Golden orbs, which is one of 26 golden orb photograph that were taken that day.  Second image on this photograph are the white orbs and third the streaking light from our outdoor light.

Spirit energy

 

The third photo was taken on october 13 2010.  I love taking photographs of the Moon because I am always hoping for a heart-shaped image of the moon, sometimes I receive one and other times I receive something like this one. You can see the light from the Moon in a curve and you may also notice the orb that seems to rest atop of the curved light from the Moon. I think sometimes they like to play around….LOL.

Moon and orb

 

The fourth photo that I would like to share is a photo of our outdoor light which was taken on October 13 2010.  I like to call this spirit energy light my angel light photograph. If you can zoom in a little bit you may notice that the spirit light image kind of takes on an angelic form. I have receive emails and comment from other saying the same thing, pretty cool.

Angel light

 

The fifth photograph is one of my all time favorite signs from our son Billy, the heart-shaped image of the moon. This photograph was taken on October 17 2010 from our home. I really really love these, really I do.

Heart shaped moon

 

The sixth photograph of many spirit orbs was taken on October 26 2010 is one of 57 photographs that were taken that day. You can see that there were so many orbs that it filled the camera lens, also you can see the spirit energy in our outdoor light.

many spirit orbs

 

The seventh photo was taken this morning. November 3 2010. I wanted to take a few photographs of the moon hoping to receive a heart-shaped image and this is what I receive. The white ” mist” or more accurately called spirit essence appeared on the photograph. I really like this type of photograph,  because I can see them ( spirit essence ) just as the camera flash is going off. I can see their size, color and shape, and they appear more amazing with the eye then they do on photographs.

Spirit Essence

 

The last photograph which I enjoy was email to me by Thierry Chauvet of Toulon France. This photo was taken at home of which you can see the heart-shaped orb by the curtain rod. This photo is also on our photo of the month our website www.oursonbilly.com .

Heart shaped orb

 

I hope that you enjoy the different types of spirit photographs and remember that anyone can take photograph like this,  just keep an open mind and start taking photographs.

If you have a spirit photogrph that you would like to share, just email them to me and we’ll see if we can have the photo on a future blog our on our photo of the month on www.oursonbilly’s website.

Have a great day

Guy

www.oursonbilly.com