From Our Loved Ones In Heaven-We Are Still With You

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Finding Comfort in The Earl Stages of Grieving.

I have received email and questions from people who have just dealt with a loss and from people who have a family member or friend who has just suffered the loss of a loved one. They have asked me what brought me some comfort in the early stage of my grieving after the loss of our son Billy. I will share 4 of them with you and of course this can be different for everyone, there is no wrong or right way, it’s your way and that’s what really matters.
1. Having someone close by brought me comfort, they did not have to say anything or do anything at all, just knowing there was someone close by helped me deal with my loss. If I wanted to talk with them and they wanted to say something great, sometimes I didn’t want anyone to talk to me, I just wanted to be left alone, but have them close by, could have been to watch tv( or should I say stare at it )because my mind was in another world, go for a walk, just sit and sometimes talk. Just having someone close by was one of my comfort’s. If your someone who has a family member or friend who has dealt with a loss and you’re not sure what to do…….just be there, just hang out with them.

2. Visiting our son Billy’s memorial, brought me some comfort. We had for 8 months a roadside memorial that I visited every single day. We planted flowers and a plaque which my parents bought us. Going to the place of the accident gave me a place to visit, think and helped bring some comfort to me. Some people may think that I was crazy for doing that, but I didn’t care what anyone was thinking. Billy was my son and I was going to grieve that way I could and which brought me some comfort and peace. There is no wrong or right way to grieve, it’s your way.

3. My family and friends, I am very blessed to have a great family and friends to help bring me some comfort during my grieving. For their part just being close by and sometimes talking helped my a difference and was very comforting for me.

4. This one was 8 months after the loss of our son Billy and which really helped bring some comfort and peace of mind and that was having a reading with a medium, in our case with Vicki Monroe. Our reading with Vicki help take a load off my shoulders, knowing that our son Billy was ok and that Billy can still connect with us from heaven, it was an awesome experience and brought me great comfort knowing that our son Billy is still so very close by, all be it in spirit form.

I do have other way that brought me comfort, but these are the ones that I wanted to share with you.

Feel free to comment on what helped bring you some comfort during your early stages of grieving.

www.oursonbilly.com  while on our website feel free to visit or join our group page on facebook – Signs from our loved ones

A place to share about our loss of a loved one and the countless sign’s that they can and do send us.

Facebook group Signs From Our Loved ones

 

Here is our link to our facebook group, Signs From Our Loved ones.    Our group is for anyone who as dealt with the loss of a loved one which is just about everyone and would like to share their story, comment’s, experience’s and the different type’s of signs that our loved ones can and do send us.   Or just read what others have to say.   Your welcome to join our group and take things at your own pace, tell your story, comment on one of many post, post a photo of your own or just read a post which may be of help to you.

Have a great day

LOVE IS EVERYTHING NOTHING ELSE MATTERS

Guy

www.oursonbilly.com

Heart – Shaped Lights

I would like to share this heart – shaped image of lights which I took yesterday June 22, 2011. A couple of days ago I installed some inexpensive christmas tree lights onto our garage and onto one of our trees.  I went outside to take a few photographs last night and this is one of three heart – shaped images which we continue to received from our son Billy in heaven. You can zoom onto the photograph for better viewing. You’ll may also notice many orbs around the heart-shaped lights.

Love is everything nothing else matters

Have a great day

Guy

www.oursonbilly.com

7 Year Anniversary Of The Loss Of Our Son Billy

      June 26 2011 will make 7 years since the loss of our son Billy, who crossed over to heaven after an accident while riding ATV at night. I just wanted to leave a short message for anyone else who has suffered a loss and wonders what it’s like 7 years after a loss. I can only speak for myself of what I felt then and feel 7 years later.

    To get a better feel of what I felt in the beginning we have a website www.oursonbilly.com which everyone can visit and read our story. What I can tell you that it was the most heartbreaking, mind numbing, life draining, you could say a living hell that any parent could ever experience.   Going through grief is different for everyone, we have received many emails from all over and they have shared their experience with us and most are pretty much the same, a few have dealt with their grief in a different way, which is what I have mentioned earlier, is that people grieve in their own way and length of time.

    For me things began to change when my wife mentioned an idea from a friend of hers, who had also suffered the loss of a child, which was to visit a spirit medium, which we did.  Visiting a medium named Vicki Monroe help make a difference in moving forward with my life and hearing from our son Billy ( through ) Vicki Monroe, is that our loved ones want us to start moving forward as soon as possible, living our lives to the fullest.  It’s ok to grieve, but there comes a time ( it’s different for everyone ) that we must start living our lives again, that’s what our loved ones want us to do.  because when it’s our time to cross over to heaven, we will be together again.

    After our meeting with Vicki Monroe, I would say about 2 to 3 months later, I learned that one of the ways that our loved ones can and do connect with us are through photographs.  I started to take pictures at random outside and inside of our home to see if we could receive any signs from our son Billy in that way. We were able to and continue to receive many signs from our son Billy that he is still with us, but in his true form ( spirit ). Our favorite sign from Billy are the heart-shaped images of the moon and lights of which we have 100’s of them. You can visit our website www.oursonbilly.com  and view a few pages of the type of signs that we continue to receive to this day.

    As the years have passed by life does get better, one day at a time,  things do start to get back into a ( normal as it can be ) life.  We never forget what it was like losing a child and we talk about Billy from time to time, of course I work with Billy’s website, book, articles take photographs and answer emails from people from all over.  We enjoy life, we are very happy, do the best we can and try to help others. For anyone who has suffered the loss of a loved one, I can tell you from my experience  and with the many emails that we have received from others that life will get better for you. It may not seem like it right now, but in time it will, one day at a time and that is what our loved ones in heaven want, they want us to be happy, enjoy life to the fullest.  We have on this blog other articles about getting help which you can read and if you like,  you can send me an email info@oursonbilly.com and I’ll do the best that I can to answer your questions.

    Remember, our loved ones who have crossed over want with all their heart for us to start living our lives again, be happy,  to move forward, we have to do our part and our loved ones in heaven can also help us along our life journey, but we have to want to start living again.

Love is everything and nothing matters.

Guy

www.oursonbilly.com

My New Years Resolution – Love

    My New Years resolution is to hopefully, share with everyone on earth our true purpose here on earth, why we are here.  Anyone who has read my blog or visited our website www.oursonbilly.com will have an idea of what I am about to write about.

    Since the loss of our son Billy in 2004, one of my goals has been to try to connect with our son Billy in heaven, which we have been able to accomplish in different ways. Here are to name a few ways that we have been able to connect with Billy, spirit medium, dreams, blinking lights, Billy playing around with our computer, messages from Billy and the most common way that we have been able to connect with Billy are through our spirit photographs that we have and continue to take. Here are a few, spirit orbs, spirit essence, streaking lights and our favorite the heart-shaped images  of the moon, street lights, christmas tree lights.

    Which brings me back to the true purpose of why we are here?  Billy has helped me with this message of why we are here, through the heart- shaped images in our spirit photographs, – LOVE – love is the reason why we are here – meaning – How we treat one another and that is how we grow spiritually.

    That is our purpose here on earth. LOVE – How we treat one another, no matter what religion or no religious beliefs at all, no matter what the color of your skin is, or if your rich or poor, famous or just your average Joe, male or female, young or old, it doesn’t matter what you do for work, or what country that you are from, or anything else that you can add to this list, it just doesn’t matter, because LOVE is everything and nothing else matters.

    It is all about how we treat every single person in our lives and every single person that we come across and every person that we talk about in our lifetime; it doesn’t matter if you have known this person for a lifetime or for a very brief moment, or never knew the person that you came across.  Everything that we are here to do revolves around how we treat every single person that we come across in our lifetime, and how we treat that person can make a difference in their life and they in turn can make a difference in someone else’s life and so on.

   One person at a time, that’s where it begins.   After all, WE are all part of one family – LOVE IS EVERYTHING AND NOTHING ELSE MATTERS.

Happy New Year

Guy

A sample of my recent spirit photographs

I would like to share a sample of the type of spirit photographs that we have been able to collect for the past 30 days, along with a photograph that was sent to us from France which is really cool. I want to share the type of signs through photographs that our loved ones, spirit guides and angelic being can and do give us.  

There are many different kinds of signs that our loved ones, spirit guides and angelic being can and do give us, for me many of them are through photographs. We have a large collection of about 40,000 photographs that we have taken over the past 5 plus years since our son Billy crossed over to heaven.  You may also like to read some of  my past blog’s and learn about other types of signs that our loved ones can and do give us which I have written about from others who have done a great job in collecting stories from many others who have receive signs from their loved ones.

Okay, back to the types of spirit  photographs that I have taken over the past 30 days. Spirit photos come in many different images and here are a few of them.

This first photograph was taken indoors in our family room October 6 2010. Notice the spirit energy using the light from our TV.  Yes I was watching Star Trek Voyager, I like the show….LOL.

Spirit light

 

This second photograph was also taken on October 6 2010, this time outside of our home’s back yard. This photograph is filled with spirit energy, beginning with the large Golden orbs, which is one of 26 golden orb photograph that were taken that day.  Second image on this photograph are the white orbs and third the streaking light from our outdoor light.

Spirit energy

 

The third photo was taken on october 13 2010.  I love taking photographs of the Moon because I am always hoping for a heart-shaped image of the moon, sometimes I receive one and other times I receive something like this one. You can see the light from the Moon in a curve and you may also notice the orb that seems to rest atop of the curved light from the Moon. I think sometimes they like to play around….LOL.

Moon and orb

 

The fourth photo that I would like to share is a photo of our outdoor light which was taken on October 13 2010.  I like to call this spirit energy light my angel light photograph. If you can zoom in a little bit you may notice that the spirit light image kind of takes on an angelic form. I have receive emails and comment from other saying the same thing, pretty cool.

Angel light

 

The fifth photograph is one of my all time favorite signs from our son Billy, the heart-shaped image of the moon. This photograph was taken on October 17 2010 from our home. I really really love these, really I do.

Heart shaped moon

 

The sixth photograph of many spirit orbs was taken on October 26 2010 is one of 57 photographs that were taken that day. You can see that there were so many orbs that it filled the camera lens, also you can see the spirit energy in our outdoor light.

many spirit orbs

 

The seventh photo was taken this morning. November 3 2010. I wanted to take a few photographs of the moon hoping to receive a heart-shaped image and this is what I receive. The white ” mist” or more accurately called spirit essence appeared on the photograph. I really like this type of photograph,  because I can see them ( spirit essence ) just as the camera flash is going off. I can see their size, color and shape, and they appear more amazing with the eye then they do on photographs.

Spirit Essence

 

The last photograph which I enjoy was email to me by Thierry Chauvet of Toulon France. This photo was taken at home of which you can see the heart-shaped orb by the curtain rod. This photo is also on our photo of the month our website www.oursonbilly.com .

Heart shaped orb

 

I hope that you enjoy the different types of spirit photographs and remember that anyone can take photograph like this,  just keep an open mind and start taking photographs.

If you have a spirit photogrph that you would like to share, just email them to me and we’ll see if we can have the photo on a future blog our on our photo of the month on www.oursonbilly’s website.

Have a great day

Guy

www.oursonbilly.com

Crossing Over

My father in-law Andy which is of course is my wife’s dad, “passed away” crossed over to the otherside ” heaven” on October 13 2010.  My father in- law Andy had been in the hospital for about two weeks with multiple health problems.  This past weekend we received the news from the doctors, which we could see coming,  that nothing more could be done, which is always heartbreaking.

  I sent an email to our good friend spirit messenger Vicki Monroe asking her about Andy being in the hospital and about his crossing over.

Vicki reply was that – My feeling from Billy, he’s more that ready to go, He will make a very smooth transition, and Billy will be there waiting. Billy actually can’t wait for him to get there, he wants to get him re-acquainted with life in OUR real world and it will all be okay.

I passed the message over to my mother in-law and to others, and I could tell that it  helped her feel better.  It’s always nice to know that our loved ones who crossed over are okay and to learn that their transition was a smooth one and that they were ready to go.  I know from experience with the loss of our son Billy, that knowing that our loved ones who do leave us to go home “heaven” are okay safe, happy and healthy.

I am now looking forward to receiving sign from my father in-law as well as from our son Billy, which will really be cool.  I am looking  forward if  there is a sign or message from my father in-law that I can tell you about, I will.

Our loved ones who have crossed over are always close by, guiding us during our own journey here on earth.  They are more alive after they cross over then they ever were while they were here in flesh & blood and they know how we feel about them , they can hear us when we think or talk about them and they know whats in our hearts. They also want us to know that they are okay and that we must keep moving forward with our lives, living it to the fullest.

Love is everything, nothing else matters

Love you Andy

From all of us

Guy

Spirit Lights

Spirit lights

 Last weekend we celebrated my parents 60th wedding anniversary which was held outdoors at our home on September 11 2010. It’s always a great time to have  family and friends getting together and enjoying each other company and even better when we can celebrate 60 years of  a couple being together for that amount of time, just think of all of the memories that they have collected over that time.   

Anyway the reason that I mentioned my parents 60th wedding anniversary is because it’s about love family and friends having a great time and enjoying each others company. Of course we are not the only ones at our parents 60th wedding anniversary party, as you know I have taken and continue to take many photographs, not only of family events but signs from our loved ones on the other side. Our loved ones who cross over to “heaven” are always close by and they to love to go to family events like the rest of us. I have taken many photographs at weddings and other family events in which our loved ones can and do let us know that they are very close to us and want us to know that they are close by.  

I would like to share 3 photographs that were taken at my parents 60th. I won’t upload any photographs which have a clear view of anyone at our anniversary party, of course for their privacy and I haven’t asked any of them for their okay, it’s something I may do so that I can display many other photographs with people and spirit activity. 

This first photograph at the top of this page was taken a couple of days before the party, my wife and I were setting thing’s up for the weekend party. This photo shows the frame-work with lights which will have a canopy in case of rain, as you can see the tiny christmas tree lights were streaking. 

In the second photograph which was taken a little later in the evening. you can see very clearly the tables, chairs, water bottles and the heavy spirit activity that was happening under our homemade canopy. 

Inside our canopy moving lights

Our third photograph was taken near the end of my parents 60th wedding anniversary party. It was starting to cool off so we started a camp fire to stay warm, we sat and talked and of course we took a few photographs of which this in one of a few that were taken with spirit activity. They sure enjoy letting us know that they are near by, which is okay with me.  

Spirit activity

Our loved ones who have crossed over to “heaven” are alway close by and they can and do give us signs that they are close by. So the next time that you have a family event or some type of gathering, try taking a few photographs, I mostly use night flash when taking any photographs, it seems to work the best.  I also mostly use two digital cameras, but I have noticed that the inexpensive disposable cameras work well, especially at weddings.

 Remember Love is everything and nothing else matters.

Guy

Grieving – What if it was the other way around

I sometime receive emails from other grieving parents and one of the things they have asked me is,  how was I able to deal with the loss of our son Billy. Some of the ways that I have dealt with our loss are mentioned in previous post on this blog.  One that I haven’t written about on this blog,  is written about on our website www.oursonbilly.com .

Some of the parents who have emailed me thanked us for writing about it on our website and book, Signs From Our Loved Ones, so I will write about it on this blog.

About 8 months after our son Billy crossed over to heaven we had the opportunity and honor to have a reading with Spirit messenger Vicki Monroe, that was February 16 2005. The reading was amazing and it took a load of my shoulders, knowing that we can still make a connection with our son Billy.  I don’t remember if Vicki asked me the question during the reading or afterwards, but she could see that I was having a difficult time dealing with the loss of our son Billy, but it went like this, Vicki said;

What if it was the other way around, what if you Guy had died and crossed over to heaven and Billy was grieving for you the way you are for Billy;  How would you, Guy in heaven feel about how Billy was grieving  and feeling for you.    Great question.

Great question indeed, but at the time my grief was to strong for me to start thinking about, what if it was the other way around.  I kind of let it go in one ear and out the other, although it did stay in the back of my mind.

It may have been about 4 to 5 months later when the same question was asked of me again, this time it did sink in.  Again like the first time, a great question. I started to think,  if it was the other way around, how would I now in heaven feel after crossing over to heaven and our son Billy was grieving for me the way I was for Billy. I didn’t like it, I would not want Billy or anyone else to be grieving for me the way I was for him. It made me feel very sad that I may have made Billy crossing over to heaven a bit of a sad one. Maybe one day I will have to ask Billy that question, it could be very helpful to know,  if so,  maybe we can help others know that it may have an effect on them, then again it may not. 

Anyway, I would from heaven do everything I could possibly do to help Billy to let go of those feelings and to start moving forward with his life, to be happy, live life to the fullest, have joy and start having fun again.  because when it’s time for Billy to cross over to heaven we will be together again.  I want to make myself clear, it’s okay to grieve, it’s when it starts to be prolonged, you stay depressed or your start to go into a deep depression and if all you do is keep thinking about the loss of your loved one, that isn’t good. We all have someone here in flesh and blood that loves us and wants to start living again.

Our loved ones in heaven do not want us to  grieve any longer then we have to.  There is not set way or time frame for how anyone does grieve or for how long, we are all different, but there comes a time when we have to start the process of moving forward living our lives and enjoy the people who are still with us.  We have to let go of the physical part of our loved one who has crossed over,  remember they are still with us in our true form spirit with all of their memories,  they know how we are feeling, what we are thinking, they know how we feel about them and they know whats in our hearts.  They want us to be happy.

When this was mentioned to me the second time around I started to think about it the other way around, I knew that I had to change about how I was feeling.  For me it was a combination of thing that helped in some way,  from my wife, family, friends and others including spirit messenger Vicki Monroe,  and receiving signs from Billy which is really cool,  and thinking about, what if it was the other way around all of these helped me to start the process of moving forward and living my life again. 

What I can tell you is that it takes time, one step and one day at a time, things will start to get better in time. You will start to have many good days and less of the bad days, which is what our loved ones in heaven help us to do, but we have to do our part. Keep in mind, what if it was the other way around, how would you feel about how your loved one was grieving for you.

I am willing to say that,  if it was the other way around,  that you from heaven would do everything that you could to help your grieving loved one to begin the process of moving forward, living life to the fullest and to be happy.

I am also willing to say that your loved one who have crossed over to heaven is most definitely trying to help you to start moving forward with your life, to be happy again, start having fun , living life to the fullest, having joy…….. right now.

Remember,  our loved ones are always close by helping us from heaven in whatever our journey here on this physical life may be and they want us to live life to the fullest.  Just remember take it one step and one day at a time.

Have a great day

Guy